big life; small space

I said that, and I have been subjected to ongoing cruelty for being queer. What I said specifically, however, is that people don't kill themselves because of one incident. One incident can push them over the edge, but suicide only seems like an appealing option if there's a whole other constellation of stuff going on. This is based on my months of training as a paraprofessional suicide prevention counselor, so take it for what it's worth.