big life; small space

I was talking about Descensus and ranting about Snape's "thing" for Voldemort which wasn't relationshipp-y romantic but about being drawn to someone and placing a lot of responsibility he should have taken for himself on someone else out based on a fantasy of who they could be as opposed to who they really were. It, was, believe it or not, despite being about submission, not about sex at all, but I realized I sounded like a maniac ranting about it and said the item quoted.