If she was indeed a friend when you were at school, I'd go ahead and contact her, either via phone or a friendly written note via snail mail. Maybe you could invite her to something fun and low key- coffee, piano bar? Worse case scenario, you can just say 'Oh, our moms are so cute, they think we're nine years old and they have to arrange play dates, don't they?' You may turn out to have more in common than you think, and she may have had feelers out to contact you for a reason. If not, you can just tell Mom!rm that you surely wish this woman the best, but people change a lot in these years and not always in compatible directions. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Date: 2004-02-16 08:15 am (UTC)