Which is like, fine, you like your men manly and your women curvy but it should be fairly obvious that in this day and age, at least, that's not a universal.

I mean, *my* half-assed opinion about the failure of WASP culture in regards to sex is that everyone but especially women, are conditioned to be so anxious about their looks and their tits and their make-up and are they hairless enough and is your cock big enough and etc that it's almost impossible to relax enough to enjoy sex ... but when I go on about how a nice pair of handcuffs and a bit gag solve a lot of problems I'm aware that I'm heading into personal taste there.