Well, and what the hell kind of übermensch bootstraps rhetoric is it to effectively argue that if you don't have a wholly-formed, well-integrated self-image free from any underlying organic or crisis-induced mental health complications and grounded in secure attachment bonds to significant relational figures in your life*, you pretty much deserve to have chinks in your armor exploited even if it kills you?

*AT AGE 13 OR 15 OR 19 I MEAN SERIOUSLY WHAT