rm ([personal profile] rm) wrote2008-10-11 12:14 am

various situations

The plan was to come home and update you all on Soren, instead, the day went a little pear shaped. To save you all suffering, everything is as fine as it can be under the circumstances.

I got to the hospital several hours later than I wanted to but had a good visit with Soren and Velma. Soren recognized me and waved, and snorted a couple of lame jokes I made. Mostly I caught up with Velma. They put a CPAP machine on Soren and it helped his breathing a lot and he then got some solid sleep afterwards -- I think some of his coming in and out of consciousness over the last couple of days was actually him not being able to sleep properly because he kept waking up from sleep apnea-like stuff.

Then I went back into the city to meet Kali for our story meeting The signals on the 1/2/3 at 14th were broken and we had a huge clusterfuck getting to our shitty bar of choice. ONce we got there we were treated to a drunk pizza parlor employee and a homless guy having a fist-fight and horrible yuppie women. Whatever.

Then I get a message on my phone. My mother has called because my father -- wait for it -- has had a stroke. It's minor -- he can talk, although his words are slurred, and he can walk, although it's a bit lurchy and she says everything is fine and I don't need to come.

So I eat my hamburger.

At which point I' realize, fuck this shit, because seriously? My parents? Not real good at sutff.

So while I page Patty and let her know what is up, Kali calls teh ER so we can find out exactly where it is.

We take a cab over there, and -- wait for it some more -- the ER HAS GIVEN US THE WRONG ADDRESS.

So we finally find the ER, while having this ridiculous conversation:

"Kinda looks like New Earth."
"Yeah, cat nuns."

We go to the ER, but my dad has been admitted to the ICU so we go up there and see my mother. This then leads to her telling me a story about the gay men who are clients of her who have decided to marry and wanted her help picking out rings and how she told them all about me. I thought this might lead to my mother telling me how she told these guys she has a gay daughter. But no! She told them I was an actress! So close and yet so far, mom. This then led to a discussion about bisexuality too idiotic too repeat (don't even ask how).

We saw my dad, I walked my mom home, and then I came home and repeated this whole amazing clusterfuck to Patty.

Seriously? A stroke? A week before the Regency Ball? Just like when mom got diagnosed with cancer? Really?

Anyway, everyone is fine for these new values of fine, but I'm drained and so forth. Details on whatever the fuck tomorrow.

[identity profile] rufus.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
jesus god. well. I'm glad everyone is ok for new values of ok. meanwhile, here is hoping the shit fairy goes on a nice long vacation from your life.

[identity profile] heron61.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
Dear gods, what an impressively wretched day. Blessings to you and yours.

[identity profile] klwalton.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
Gah!

2008 is so very fucking fired.

[identity profile] fuyukodachi.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Fuck this week.

[identity profile] shipchan.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 05:59 am (UTC)(link)
Word.

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
a) What an awful combination of bad stuff. I hope tomorrow is better.

b) You dance Regency? I had no idea.

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
Yup. Pretty seriously. There's some YouTube stuff of a performance I was in at Naomi Nnovik's recent book release party.

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[identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
I swear between your day, [livejournal.com profile] copperbadge's stuff, and the economy? I'm keeping an open eye for the four horseman. I mean Paul Revere rode right by my apartment to warn about the British? Why shouldn't the horsemen of the apocalypse come through here too?

[identity profile] darthhellokitty.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit! You should get credit for several days of crazy trouble. Glad everyone's no worse!

[identity profile] kalichan.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
I still want to know what we would have done, if you know, we'd like lopped off a finger or something. You could fucking bleed out wandering around York looking for the goddamn entrance.

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 02:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi, Jack!

Seriously, cadence.

[identity profile] marzipan-pig.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I am so sorry. Good luck to you and everyone important to you.

[identity profile] theotoky.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
what a truly awful day. i'm so sorry. i'm glad the day is behind you. hold patty tonight. tomorrow will be better.

[identity profile] shipchan.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my God, dude. I hope your dad is ok. Just this whole week is just...oh my God.

[identity profile] hiddenshallows.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear this. I hope your friend and father recover soon.

[identity profile] stardragonca.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 07:46 am (UTC)(link)
Further prayers.
Bless you,[livejournal.com profile] rm.

[identity profile] tlatzomia.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 12:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, Honey. I don't know what to say. I'm sorry.

[identity profile] graene.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wow. beams for good health to everyone you mentioned.

[identity profile] roadnotes.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Bloody fucking HELL. My sympathies.

2008 is SO fired, and better not ask for a reference.

[identity profile] rm.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously. Assuming my dad is stable, I will see you guys Monday, but I think Sunday is probably out of the question right now. I'll bring Smart Water.

[identity profile] coyotegoth.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope he recovers quickly. (Aiyee- what is it with this month?)

[identity profile] dragonsinger954.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:49 pm (UTC)(link)
*major hugs* as well as prayers and healing energy for your dad and strength for you during this. Hope is recovery is quick and good

[identity profile] systris.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow...damn....I really hope things get better or less sucky.
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[identity profile] alabastard.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, just ugh, all at once, eh? I hope things turn around in tine for the dance.

[identity profile] billijean.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow. I seem to have some kind of magnetic attraction for shit to happen all at once, but this is spectacular in it's wretchedness.
I'm keeping your dad and mom and you in my thoughts and hopefully, the difficulty rating on life will come down over the next few days.

[identity profile] schmidtybooger.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Great googily moogily. I'm keeping you in my thoughts hun, this sounds like a very trying day.
My novena candle for Soren has almost finished, looks like I'll have to pick up more.

[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 03:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Time to go to Fiesta and buy out their candle section. What saint do you think? Or should I just stick with Our Lady of Guadalupe and La Milagra?
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[identity profile] torenheksje.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
This has really been a shitty year for so many people. Let's hope it stays mild for your dad - you're all in my thoughts.
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[identity profile] sola.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's hope that it remains minor, and he recovers quickly.


I fully expect tickets to Disneyworld on everyone's doorsteps come January 1st as recompense.

[identity profile] mme-furiosa.livejournal.com 2008-10-11 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no! I'm sorry for the huge steaming shit sandwich you seem to have quite suddenly been served. I suspect dance will help to soften the blow, and hopefully the rest will be resolved by time.

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