oh yes, and with regard to the therapy link, I agree with the person who in the comments mentioned it's a pervasive thing in all therapies, and not regulated to anti-gay ones. I was very lucky to have found a therapist who was very queer friendly AND very poly friendly (!!) but the more I went to therapy, the more I found myself equating my kinks with my sexual abuse. But even now, I feel like I ought to qualify that with "but maybe in my case, there IS causation". And maybe there is. *shrug*
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Date: 2010-02-02 03:39 pm (UTC)