If you (general you) have a partner that mocks you because of the appearance of your sex organ(s), is that someone you really want to share your emotional vulnerabilities with? I'd be showing that person the door. Or possibly the window...
Having said that, I'm not surprised other women ask "Is this normal?" We've been conditioned to think there is a singular normal, or that "normal" is what one sees in porn. But as my gyn told me once, "If it's not falling off, bleeding or has green goo dripping from it, you're probably fine."
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Date: 2010-06-18 10:18 pm (UTC)Having said that, I'm not surprised other women ask "Is this normal?" We've been conditioned to think there is a singular normal, or that "normal" is what one sees in porn. But as my gyn told me once, "If it's not falling off, bleeding or has green goo dripping from it, you're probably fine."