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All hail the 80s! Yesterday at Inception we saw trailers both for the Wall Street sequel and for Tron: Legacy. Child of the 80s that I am, I was rolling around in my seat in utter pleasure. Also, The Town looks really good. Of course, we also saw a trailer for Eat, Pray, Love which made both Patty and I want to kill people a lot.

Man stabbed at ComicCon: cue panicked analysis of geek subculture? Or perhaps a discussion about all bloggers being liars? You see, the story at CNN and the eye-witness accounts are really different. Discrepancy story via yendi.

Bird shit drives Kings of Leon from the stage.

Threat Down: Bears - Bear goes on joyride, trashes car.

The Web means the end of forgetting. I haven't read it yet, but expect the usual NYTimes alarmist crap about how the wacky Internet will destroy your life. On the other hand, maybe it will actually explore what nearly unavoidably documented personal legacy means to a culture that venerates self-invention and practically demands everyone have lots and lots of alter egos.

Sissy Bounce in New Orleans -- this article is really interesting, but fair warning as it is about gender, identity and race, among other things, the New York Times is often baffled and condescending.

Shirtless bartenders: tacky, health hazard or targets of homophobia?

Hey, so Target is opening a new store in New York today. It's also been contributing money to an anti-gay politician in Minnesota. So, you know, be aware when you make your shopping choices, because we're not talking just any anti-gay politician here but a guy who likes to hang out with some dude who says that Muslim countries are even more moral than US Christians because they execute gay people.

Target has responded to say they donate political funds solely based on their retail interests and no other issues; seems logical and harmless really, til you think about it. I AM YOUR RETAIL INTERESTS.

We're going to a wedding in August, so obviously we don't feel this way, but keori has a point. Also, especially that thing about having a bachelorette party in a gay bar -- that shit is annoying. At best.

xtricks is is helping fandom understand how "teh butt sex!" really works. Also known as "if you're not willing to shove peanut butter up your own ass, please stop writing fic where someone uses it as lube." (xtricks doesn't quite say this, but that's the message, and yes, I have seen badfic where someone uses peanut butter as lube). Anyway, his post is both useful advice for smut writers and HILARIOUS.

On Buffy, it's time for Buffy and the Slayerettes. Wow, one thing I'll say for this season is there is a lot of great speechifying. One of the things I love in film and TV more than anything are call-to-arms speeches. The thing is, very few actors can pull them off. I get annoyed with the nearly perfect Gangs of New York for just this reason -- I don't believe DiCaprio when he does this. And let's not even get started on Oliver Stone's Alexander.

What's remarkable about these episodes of Buffy is she has two of the speeches in nearly back to back episodes and KNOCKS THEM OUT OF THE PARK. Xander then has a great, tender (albeit slightly over-written) one to Dawn. And I am ALL OVER THIS SHIT, even if lots of other things are going on on Buffy that are annoying right now.

I love Kennedy though (and I think they are doing a lot of smart, subtle things with her -- i.e., the one Slayerette who's actually had decent training is the one with cash; that really says something and speaks to the clearly class-focused world of the Watchers) and Patty reports fandom loathed her at the time for being too perfect and annoying. All I could think really, was "fuck you, Torchwood fandom and your shit about Gwen." I AM SO SICK OF FANDOM'S MISOGYNY. Anyway, I think it's great to see a character who has lost a love to death moving on to a new relationship -- we don't get that on TV a lot.

All the Slayerettes amuse the crap out of me. The southern girl who was really dead and a project on the First Evil was the fuck fantastic -- what does the devil do but tell lies and sow doubt?

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[nicoli-dominn.livejournal.com]

I spent most of my time reading the NY Times internet article wondering if they were going to approach the issue of empathy, and I was glad they finally did on that last page.

It's all very well and good to warn people to be careful what they and other people post on the internet about themselves, and to explore the possible invasions of privacy committed by various social networking sites, but I think the underlying issue is the most important: people judge other people more quickly based on their flaws than on their virtues in our society. It's the same thing when people remember relatives or acquaintances with whom they've had conflicted relationships: it's the conflicts that stick out in one's mind, rather than the times when they might have gotten along with one another.

It's a common human trait, but I don't think it has to be permanent, especially when people are forced to look at others and weigh the 'good' against the 'bad' to decide a final verdict on whether or not those people are to be accepted for whatever purpose.