Now, do I wear my dress and show off the tattoo or do I do my awesome expensive jeans, custom dress shirt, waistcoat, suit jacket look? The problem is that every choice is a story.
My body, aside from just being mine, is also my tool, my instrument, and my product. The idea that I should be all right with this manner of its treatment is entirely beyond me, and I'm lucky in the number of complicating factors these experiences don't bring to the table for me. This shit is not okay.
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Date: 2010-11-09 09:22 pm (UTC)Flying is stressful enough for me; I can get vertigo on take-off and am prone to vague motion sickness through the entire flight. Not enough to barf but enough to feel ill.
I'm also usually worried about getting to the airport in time and keeping track of my family, and worrying about what we'll eat and drink, so that by the time we're at security, I'm often nearly a wreck, some time almost in tears it's all so stressful. Add to that, inconsistent security procedures that don't do a damn thing to make me safer and only stress me out more.
These new procedures which are invasive in multiple ways are making me less likely to fly because, I'm sick of being forced to give up my privacy to suit some suits idea of what makes us safer without any proof of it doing so.