Hell, yes! I have recently found a lady who does my hair the way I want it (basically a slightly femmed-up crew cut), but it was an odyssey to get there, because what I usually ended up with was either barely any shorter than I came with (and after a lot of fussing like you describe it), or some sort of exceedingly nerdy-looking quasi-page cut. And she talked all neutrally about dogs and the weather with me, too! No heteronormative bs! I didn't quite realise how much I resented it all before I found out that, yes, there are people who can do it differently. I'm so grateful! And I very much hope you find someone like that, too!
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Date: 2011-03-05 12:57 pm (UTC)