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Last night Patty and I went out to a lovely dinner on a pier on the west side. This was marred only by how slammed they were, and so it took forever to get our order, which also would have been fine, had I not had to deal with other random pushy New Yorkers as I waited for it. Also, we should have brought jackets. When the sun went down it got cold fast. But I ate prosciutto wrapped asparagus and you didn't.

I've been trying to figure out where to stay in London. This is complicated by the completely intolerable hotel reviews people leave on sites. Last night I got fed up after I read "I will never book online again. In ethnic neighborhood! Not safe for women!" SO SO SO ANGRY, and yes, European hotels for solo travelers feature Very Small Rooms, get over it. Right now I'm thinking about the Easy Hotel in Victoria. Again, if I don't just go back to our place in Brick Lane. It arguable I felt so at home there because it was the first thing we saw in London, but I really, REALLY did, and really, REALLY didn't in a lot of the places I sort of felt like I "should."

Apparently building a mosque near the WTC site is controversial. The idea that this is somehow an issue is so offensive the mind boggles.

With the closure of St. Vincent's home birth is being rendered effectively illegal in NYC. nex0s has more.

Atlantis comes home for the last time.

The rent-controlled and rent stabilized apartments of NYC. FYI, while all such apartments are bargains, not all such apartments are bargains like that. Ours is stabilized and we pay $1450. My parent's place, which is huger and way more awesome than ours is also stabilized and I think they pay about $2200 now. This may be rude to discuss elsewhere, normal here.

Another subway hero.

Allies to US: Get Over It. Sometimes the hardest thing about dealing with life in the US is listening to all the fear, day in and day out, not just about gays, but about EVERYTHING. No wonder I have anxiety. No wonder we all do. It's the shark attack principle, and I hate it.

New York State again tries to pass a bill against anti-gay bullying and discrimination in schools. New York's dysfunctional senate will probably see its death. Again.

Hey, do you all know about Kickstarter? I should really, really consider this as an option for some of the projects I have lying around (everything from the chihuahua infestation mockumentary to where I want to take the mourning project next).

Last night on Buffy: Someone actually said "rape," Buffy & Spike are almost having a relationship, everything else is falling apart. The rape thing was both appropriate and necessary, and weirdly jarring, since Buffy spends a lot of time being about rape without talking about rape. So that was interesting. I also feel like I can't really comment on that aspect of this episode without having seen Dollhouse.

best thing on the Internet today

The Republicans seek advice from the Internet, then have to deal with the fact that they got some.

In some places it's hard to tell if it's satire or good ol' Republican bigotry. In others... well, you do want a race of super-fast dolphins, don't you?

Ooopsie.