1. I don't think the other person was intending to be malicious and I feel badly that I may have upset her by not understanding.
2. I never had any doubt that she was telling me the truth about the outlets until she said she wasn't.
3. I was plugging in my machine and rushing off to get food in a short break, so I was barely looking at her when this happened, as I think is common in New York. It seems odd to me, in a city where we have to often pretend other people don't exist to get by, that I was supposed to be paying enough attention to someone I'd never spoken to before I ascertain their intent in so detailed a fashion.
4. We had not spoken or made eye-contact in anyway before this thing happened.