Er, not necessarily. My pissiness has a bit to do with how even though this poll was written as a reaction to the material, in many ways it is a direct reflection of the material, but unacknowledged. You were OK with not differentiating from the original material in saying that the only needs that matter are the needs that can be met within the context of a relationship. Which seems to be reinforced by the way you phrased the last question - you only want the input of those who have succesfully found a relationship or those who didn't fail because they were never trying.
And for that matter, do you really believe most people are that self-aware, to truly understand what their needs are?
I just *flaps hands distractedly*, I get frustrated when I see what looks like a badly formed reaction to things like this. And nicotine withdrawl, not making it better.
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Date: 2005-12-12 10:47 pm (UTC)And for that matter, do you really believe most people are that self-aware, to truly understand what their needs are?
I just *flaps hands distractedly*, I get frustrated when I see what looks like a badly formed reaction to things like this. And nicotine withdrawl, not making it better.