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[rm]

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/07/us/07aging.html

Fascinating article on the harm of addressing seniors with elder-speak.

But what really struck me? The toll of words like "sweetie" and "dear" that the article notes are also used for children in a way that can also be disrespectful and isolating. What the article doesn't note: is that these words are used in the same way on women of all ages, and yes, it makes us angry and uncooperative too.

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When I get called "sweetie" by a man with whom I'm not in a relationship (come to think of if, none of them men I have a r'ship with call me sweetie, but!) I usually call them "SweetCheeks" right back.

Makes 'em blush. And gets the point accross.

N.