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[rm]

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/07/us/07aging.html

Fascinating article on the harm of addressing seniors with elder-speak.

But what really struck me? The toll of words like "sweetie" and "dear" that the article notes are also used for children in a way that can also be disrespectful and isolating. What the article doesn't note: is that these words are used in the same way on women of all ages, and yes, it makes us angry and uncooperative too.

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The tone makes all the difference. Hon or Dear said with empathy or caring it is one thing. Said in the Chevy Chase 'Jane you ignorant slut' tone it is quite another. (and yes, I know I am showing my age by referring to early SNL)