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Feb. 22nd, 2009 01:50 pmI know someone has to be working on the compromise angle. I know that something is better than nothing, but wow, do I resent the New York Times telling me what should be "good enough" for me as a queer person.
I hate the gay marriage debate so much I don't even know where to start. It's just non-stop awful, overshaodws other critical issues for queer people and yet has symbolic primacy in terms of how we are perceived by the broader world. It's a fucking mess.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/22/opinion/22rauch.html
Meanwhile, I have cold and feel utterly like crap.
I hate the gay marriage debate so much I don't even know where to start. It's just non-stop awful, overshaodws other critical issues for queer people and yet has symbolic primacy in terms of how we are perceived by the broader world. It's a fucking mess.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/22/opinion/22rauch.html
Meanwhile, I have cold and feel utterly like crap.
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Date: 2009-02-23 01:05 am (UTC)No.
I can't read this crap any more.
I just can't.
I don't see any difference between the love I have for my husband of almost 14 years and the love the two of us share for our wife.
I don't get why the love I feel for my wife is less valid than the love I feel for my husband.
I don't get why some kinds of prejudice are okay and others are not.
Do I get to say "I hate all conservative Christians" now, and use that as a basis for whether or not I will wait on them in my parents' shop?
Moreover, can I continue to ban them from the shop until they stop being Christian?
Then, if I get enough like-minded shop owners together, can we steamroller legislation that bans all conservative Christians. We'll make it happen using HIGHLY inflammatory and misleading advertising.
Why not? I don't like them. They're icky. They make me uncomfortable. They act weird and say weird things and hang out with people who don't like me and who I don't like. If I had kids, they might be swayed by a lifestyle that promotes bad behavior and bad habits.
Why can't I make my prejudices into law? I'm not imposing anything on people, I'm just protecting my family.
*eyeroll*
I need to go away now before I start saying what I REALLY think.