rm ([personal profile] rm) wrote2009-05-04 07:52 pm

blow me

Seriously, I should write a serious response to this, but I've neither the time nor the inclination right now.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPw1Sa0OLRk

[identity profile] violetisblue.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
I clearly have some issues of my own to work through because I saw the photograph of an old white guy, saw the description "anthropologist" and thought, "Nope, not a single thing you could possibly have to say on this subject will be either accurate or relevant, I'll pass." Evidently that was the right decision.
Edited 2009-05-05 00:58 (UTC)

[identity profile] therealycats.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
I actually do think a study of the psychology behind it would be interesting to read about, and I think an anthropologist would be a good one to do it, but this guy...well, he's trying, and I don't really think he's being intentionally derogatory in any way, but unfortunately he's missed the point of it. "By and for heterosexual women"--wrong. Maybe 40 years ago, but not today. He also says that gay male sex isn't monogamous, which unfortunately smacks of ignorance seeing as how there are couples of all pairings who are faithful to one partner, just as there are people of all sexes and orientations who sleep with multiple partners. And then there was the bit about anal sex being a substitute for vaginal intercourse.

[identity profile] violetisblue.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
"'By and for heterosexual women'--wrong."

Yeah, I sigh inside every time I see that because I thought I was finished with "You, a lesbian, write m/m slash?! No WAY! Please JUSTIFY how you could possibly want to do that!" stuff, you know, ten years ago? It's a bit tedious.

[identity profile] therealycats.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
But everyone knows lesbians only think about having sex with every woman they run across, ever. It's science!

[identity profile] violetisblue.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Now I'm afraid you're just being silly. Everyone knows that stuff lesbians do isn't real sex!

[identity profile] therealycats.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, fair enough. I guess lesbians would just have to sort of...scissor.

SCISSOR ME, XERXES!

[identity profile] browneyedgirl65.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
Ha, ha, ha, I had exactly the same reaction! :-)

On extremely cursory glance, the comments on the youtube itself seemed to be pretty much taking him down for the right reasons...

[identity profile] violetisblue.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I know--intelligent, articulate YouTube comments? The sky is falling.

[identity profile] browneyedgirl65.livejournal.com 2009-05-05 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
I was flabbergasted as well, hence my hedging about with "cursory" etc. But, wow.