I have fears, and none of them are you, or the exposure of what turns my crank or how I express myself. You don't even know me (and whatever it is you think I am, I am not), so how dare you call me and my tribe cowards and then take your ball and slink off home. There's really no greater insult, not just to the people you claim you were trying to engage, but to yourself. Generally speaking, I think shame is an ugly and useless emotion, and then things like this happen, and I realize I hope you have a lot of it, not because you deserve it, but because it's the only thing that would explain the viciousness and irrationality of your actions.
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(What am I talking about? I'm talking about
ogi_ogas's assertion that "'some deep sense of pleasure or satisfaction ultimately rooted in subcortical circuits' compels us to seek out slash/transsexuals despite fearing exposure to society at large." Context here: http://shaggirl.livejournal.com/190980.html)
*sigh*
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(What am I talking about? I'm talking about
*sigh*
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Date: 2009-09-03 06:19 am (UTC)says more about the speaker than anyone else, i think.
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Date: 2009-09-03 03:27 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:24 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:27 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:55 am (UTC)some deep sense of pleasure or satisfaction ultimately rooted in subcortical circuits means we think with out *brains*.[1] Alert the media!
[1] or not, in Ogi's case.
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Date: 2009-09-03 11:53 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-06 12:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:27 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:44 am (UTC)For a given value of success? So freaking terrifying. Jeez.
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Date: 2009-09-03 02:10 pm (UTC)I'm a literalist on this one.
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Date: 2009-09-03 07:02 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 07:05 am (UTC)Re: Newsflash to Ogi
Date: 2009-09-03 09:42 am (UTC)Oh yes. Beautifully said. The guy needs to own his kink and get over it. (except that slash-reading lesbians obviously don't exist!)
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Date: 2009-09-03 10:49 am (UTC)Re: Newsflash to Ogi
Date: 2009-09-03 10:56 am (UTC)Being expected to help someone understand what does, or, in my case does not float my boat annoys me shitless. Since when do we owe some asshole an explaination, or a defense of something that personal?
Also, oogi is definitely an appropriate word for this person.
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Date: 2009-09-03 08:14 am (UTC)What's more disturbing was that last note by him at the bottom that mentioned he was going to wait for things to die down and try something like this again in the future just to study the backlash.
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Date: 2009-09-03 09:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 09:44 am (UTC)I'm curious to know where I would fit in his research, as a person society would identify as a heterosexual woman, who "seeks out" BOTH slash and transsexuals. And my fear of "exposure to society at large" has nothing to do with my sexuality and everything to do with my gender. I learned a long time ago to be afraid of exposure to society because I am a woman. Society is a dangerous place for me. It views me as inferior, it rapes and abuses me, it tells me that I have to have children and then blames me for how I raise them. What society thinks of my sex life and fantasies is much less terrifying to me than what society thinks of ME as a human being.
And am I the only one who noticed his assertion that the fandom is the far left? (He makes a comment about seeing how he's treated by the far right.) While I'll admit to being far left, I'm not sure the entire fandom is left leaning (another assumption about the group he is "studying"), but really the question is ... what does politics have to do with any of this anyway?
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Date: 2009-09-03 11:04 am (UTC)Language that can commonly be found in certain Leftist circles... so, go figure.
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Date: 2009-09-03 01:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 01:21 pm (UTC)Still, it makes him look silly and very uninformed about the world at large, not just fandom.
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Date: 2009-09-03 02:02 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-08 12:45 am (UTC)The political comment made me wonder, too. Your guess is as good as mine or anyone else's what he's really hoping to accomplish.
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Date: 2009-09-03 11:00 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 11:19 am (UTC)The hell? Are they on crack? No, don't answer that... people really need to get over their hangups...
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Date: 2009-09-03 11:51 am (UTC)*raises hand*
My RL/fandom life has become so blurred that I'm not quite sure there is a dividing line at this point. I stand proud with who I am and don't need some yahoos trying to tell me that I fear something which I don't.
Idjuts.
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Date: 2009-09-03 01:37 pm (UTC)I can't beat myself up too badly for having filled out the survey right away, since my data of completely bisexual, no fic writing, and appreciation of pairings of all flavors can't yield any satisfaction to him.
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Date: 2009-09-08 12:47 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 01:37 pm (UTC)LOL. Raise your hand if you're surprised.
...I didn't think so. I just hope he continues to experience real-life consequences from this-- not because I care if he suffers, but because he's obviously going to write crap that will be damaging to society if it doesn't get debunked.
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Date: 2009-09-03 01:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-09-03 06:03 pm (UTC)It's pretty obvious what Oogie is afraid of, but why is he projecting it on to me?
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Date: 2009-09-06 04:39 am (UTC)