seriously?
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rmI have just discovered that my tux, which while fitted/designed here is constructed abroad, is stuck in customs, and while the lovely ladies of Duchess are doing everything they can, with the impending holiday, I think there's a very good chance I may not have it for the cruise.
And if, but some miracle, it can get to me in time, it may be necessary to ship it to my parents house to ensure delivery, which is not, even remotely, an ideal scenario (ETA: just updated my mother on this and she was oddly sanguine and not jumpy as she usually is about my gender stuff because "it's like Ellen (Degeneres)"). Also time for alterations = none, and I'll have to pray it's as perfectly fitted as my other two Duchess suits.
When I found this out earlier I had to laugh for the sheer absurdity of it. And it's certainly one of those things beyond everyone's control.
But seriously? I'm not happy about the prospect of having to choose between the level of formality I'm comfortable with (i.e., formal with my evening gowns -- I was planning to bring two, but now may bring three as I had planned to reserve my suits for the semi-formal nights) and the gender I'm comfortable with (when I don't want to wear women's clothes, I really can't stand to, and it's not always predictable) while on the boat.
I also.... Jesus, I'll have plenty of occasions to wear the thing, so that's no big deal, but how much do I not, for reasons somewhat complicated, want the first time I wear it to be at Gally?
AAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRgh!
2009.
Fucking hell.
And if, but some miracle, it can get to me in time, it may be necessary to ship it to my parents house to ensure delivery, which is not, even remotely, an ideal scenario (ETA: just updated my mother on this and she was oddly sanguine and not jumpy as she usually is about my gender stuff because "it's like Ellen (Degeneres)"). Also time for alterations = none, and I'll have to pray it's as perfectly fitted as my other two Duchess suits.
When I found this out earlier I had to laugh for the sheer absurdity of it. And it's certainly one of those things beyond everyone's control.
But seriously? I'm not happy about the prospect of having to choose between the level of formality I'm comfortable with (i.e., formal with my evening gowns -- I was planning to bring two, but now may bring three as I had planned to reserve my suits for the semi-formal nights) and the gender I'm comfortable with (when I don't want to wear women's clothes, I really can't stand to, and it's not always predictable) while on the boat.
I also.... Jesus, I'll have plenty of occasions to wear the thing, so that's no big deal, but how much do I not, for reasons somewhat complicated, want the first time I wear it to be at Gally?
AAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRgh!
2009.
Fucking hell.
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Date: 2009-12-30 12:08 am (UTC)This, absolutely! When I travel I always feel like I'm packing for two different people. (An imprecise way of explaining what I mean, but I hope you'll understand anyway. "Two different possible mes" is closer, but sounds odd.) True story: due to an accidental luggage switcheroo last summer, I got stuck in North Carolina for a week with two pairs of skinny jeans, stiletto heels, a really femme power suit and a couple of hideously lacy pastel button-down blouses. All of it fit reasonably well (a minor miracle in and of itself) but I can't tell you how itchy I was.
I really hope your things arrive in time, and in good order. Either way, try to have fun on your cruise.