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There are just a few more days to bid on things at debsliverlovers. Some more really cool stuff went up yesterday (an awesome novel with art drawn into it directly by Thomas Canty! An original page of comic art from Colleen Doran!) and some more awesome stuff will be going up today. So far the auction looks like it's raised 6K, but the goal is 10K to help with the costs associated with this live donor liver transplant. Go check it out.

This UK trip is still confusing.

I know it's super easy to go to Cardiff for a day. Patty and I did it last month. What's not super easy is leaving New York on July 7, landing in London on July 8, going to Cardiff on July 9, heading to Bristol that night, heading back to London on July 11, leaving for New York on July 12. See how much better this plan is if Cardiff just gets removed? SO MUCH BETTER. But I'm still torn because of the nature of my research and my desire for fabulous gluten-free welsh cakes. Also, the part where I am whiny.

On the other hand, after reading an article about how awfully hard it is to manage to use points on Delta, I'm a bit more "fuck it" and leaning towards Virgin Atlantic. Did you know, however, that you can't trade frequent flier points between Virgin Atlantic and Virgin America? Also, the most ideal times for the flights to allow me to actually do stuff in London on Monday involve me flying back into Newark. Getting home from Newark sucks, but a little bit of inconvenience is worth it, right?

Also, what do I want to see in my brief stays in London this time? Imperial War Museum. But what else? What do I want to see in my super brief sojourn in Bristol? Cardiff is the WORST possible plan, right? The question is whether not going to Cardiff is an even more terrible plan.

smirnoffmule made a warning for slash bingo card. If you start to say one of those things on the card? Stop.

Remember that thing when LJ tried to make people indicate a gender _and_ the options sucked? Now it's DeviantArt's turn. Bad plan, DeviantArt, bad plan.

Life on the subway was super annoying this morning: don't fucking litter and don't fucking sit like your balls are the size of New Jersey. It kept making me want to burst out in Buffy-esque song.

Last night after helping a friend put stuff into storage and fighting the subways Patty got home super late, so we have no Buffy or Angel update for you. Also, I am pretty damn tired, as we stayed up too late talking when she did get home, because we prize the check-in time.

The love from fictional characters meme hasn't just been funny, it's been oddly sweet.

redstapler links us to sidewalk lanes for New Yorkers vs. Tourists. Pity it's a joke.

I got a ticket to the White Collar event at the Paley Center. Yay.

Meanwhile, Patty and I must get Metropolis tickets immediately.

My parents have started to read my Bristol paper. They're on page 9. They are proud of me. My mother says she didn't know science fiction was about things. I explain that genre is merely incidental to the work - Sherlock Holmes isn't science fiction (although, fiction with science!) - as SFF has more ways of talking about death constantly. So far she finds the paper "sweet" and "fascinating" but I don't think she's gotten to the part that I expect will break her brain yet. My father relays his more muted opinions through my mother, which is good, or else he'll talk to me about god.

Comments

[girlofavalon.livejournal.com]

"But how will people know it's slash?"

Erm, don't the characters have names? *shakes head*
You post a fic, and in the "Pairing" part of the header, you put "Harry/Draco"... sounds very slashy to me. Should I put a warning? :P

[girlofavalon.livejournal.com]

As for warning for het, I can only see the reasoning when it's a majorly slash story and the het in question involves one of the characters in the main pairing.

Like, I write a Harry/Draco fanfic, but at some point of the story, Harry (or Draco) gets romantically/sexually involved with Ginny (or Hermione, or whatever other female character).

[rm.livejournal.com]

Labeling the tin = good.

Labeling the tin with words that imply judgment on the not bad/wrong/weird/terrible thing you're labeling for is abnormal or bad = not good.

Consensual sexuality can be labeled for. It shouldn't be fucking for.

[weirdquark]

You post a fic, and in the "Pairing" part of the header, you put "Harry/Draco"... sounds very slashy to me. Should I put a warning? :P

You'd think so, but a friend of mine wrote a story once which lists the pairing in the "A/B" way and got a comment back from someone who said that they loved it, but that it was kind of gross that my friend had made the characters gay. Which left me wondering what this person thought was meant by "A/B" in the first place. Possibly that A and B are two straight guys that love each other so much that they have sex and a fulfilling romantic relationship? But they aren't gay!

I guess it's pretty clear that some people actually do think (for certain values of "think") being gay is a kink -- like using whipped cream or handcuffs or something, but I've never understood where that comes from.

[girlofavalon.livejournal.com]

It's kinda depressing, if you think too much about it.

Your mention of the review saying it's gross reminded me of an occasion I weeted the link to a fab Harry/Draco NWS art. I warned that it was NWS, but you know Twitter, it only allows 140 characters. I got a reply from one of my Twitter buddies all "eww, you should've warned it was slash, some people don't want to see this garbage"

Everyone there knew of my major love for Harry/Draco, that I breath this pairing. Not my fault if the pairing doesn't fit in the 140 characters.

[marcmagus]

Something that some people prefer in their sexual relationships that I'm not into and don't really understand why they would be, but is perfectly normal, none of my business to judge, would be ok even if it were, and there's certainly no need to warn for in stories?

Yeah, ok, I can get it to a lot better than many people, but there's no way I'm going to get it to ok. Oh, well.

[heavenscalyx.livejournal.com]

I also think that, gosh, people should just read the damn story. I co-wrote a story where letting people know that it was slash ahead of time would have been a major spoiler for a chunk of the plot. Plus there's a noisy chunk of fandom that won't read stories if there's a hint of *gasp* lesbian relationships. Which is pretty much all I write.

[girlofavalon.livejournal.com]

Tbh, I don't get the "major spoiler" thing some times. Maybe it's because I have a major love for some pairings, and I would like to be "warned" that my pairing will be there somewhere.

[heavenscalyx.livejournal.com]

I can see that as being an attractant.

(In our case, we wrote the story originally for a friend who shipped one particular het combination, and we were jokingly writing the story so it seemed like it was the "opposing" ship, and then broke out of the het ships entirely. The friend loved it. Other people weren't so sure -- I suspect they thought it was a bait-and-switch.)

[girlofavalon.livejournal.com]

Glad your friend liked the story :) I can see why the others would think it was a bait and switch, though.