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Patty has a cold. :(

Also, Buffy and Angel? Not here yet.

Finished my WIAD story.

Can we talk about Lady Gaga's new video? Because I could. All day. Not only is it a response to a certain era of Madonna, but it also goes to a lot of strange, strange uncomfortable places, the fascist references in its physical language being close to the top of the list. It's incredibly cool, smart stuff. There needs to be a Gaga Studies Journal, that's all I'm saying.

From all of my friendslist to all of yours: liljacks_corner is a community that has been set up for fan creators to make G-rated stuff for an eight-year-old boy named Jack who has just lost his legs; one of the only things that cheers him up right now is Doctor Who. He's only seen the first two seasons of the New series. What's being requested is a story about a little boy, much like the one it's for, going on an adventure with the Doctor and Rose. Details at the community.

Ready to start hollering? Daring to discuss women in science.

The Century Athletic Club.

New York now has an AllStaints Spitalfields.

Does anyone know more about this: is Judy Shepard's book homophobic? Accusations vague, scenario murky. Bwah? Anyone read it?

Didn't know this: Stephanie Flores, the Peruvian woman van der Sloot has reportedly confessed to killing, was a lesbian.

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[soukup.livejournal.com]

Oddly, I found it semi-squicky when she wasn't on top. Hmm.

I know we don't know each other, but I find this really intriguing. Is it really rude and nosy of me to ask whether you mean "on top" in the literal sense? Because there were some shots where it was more of a figurative topping or bottoming -- in one, she was physically in her partner's lap (so "on top" of him), but clearly being held; in another she was on the bottom in the literal sense, but posed in such a way that it was meant to look like she was fucking him. Does it squick you when she's posed as if being penetrated, or when she's physically under him?

Unless this is the weirdest question in the world! This is one of those things which I feel waaaaay too comfortable discussing in public, so sometimes I'm not really sure where other people's boundaries lie. Please feel totally free to ignore me if I'm over the line.

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Nah, I don't mind. I was actually just rewatching the video to unpack my first reactions, and I think several factors play into this:

- Gaga is dressed in lingerie the color of her skin tone, versus the male partner in leather or latex, so she seems more naked/vulnerable.
- The bed/dance moves remind me of wrestling, and she's (likely) physically weaker. (Which... if this were two men in bed or she was with another woman, I don't think it would stand out to me.)
- The snippets when she's on top seem more sensual and less combative. At one point, the guy holds her down by the upper arms, and anything that feels like a non-con vibe squicks me. (Though she's not distressed or anything.)

Penetration has little to do with it; to me it's just the posing. I mean, I'm on the bottom all the time when I do it.

(I pretty much don't have a lot of sex-discussion boundaries, really. :D )

I wonder if I can get my husband to shave his legs and buy some patent-leather pumps. Hmm.