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1. I still need to write that testimonial, and
2. I need to think about Neal Caffrey's silhouette and if that's something that works with my suit tastes and styling to create the illusion of a masculine body for me; obviously, it seems probable that the closer cut something is on me, the more feminine I'm going to look.
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Date: 2010-07-16 12:45 pm (UTC)I don't know that I feel comfortable with their mention of trans people. It's meant to be an example of the "norm-flouting" nature of gay marriage. While it can obviously be argued that both gay marriage and being trans are norm-flouting in the sense that most people are straight and not trans, it reads like they're implying that gay people getting married or people transitioning are acts undertaken to flout norms. It also locates trans-ness as a specifically queer issue, as if trans people are all attracted to people of the gender they were assigned at birth. All that said, it's a point in favour of the wedding magazine that they wrote the article in the first place.
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Date: 2010-07-16 04:10 pm (UTC)I think it's hard to write an article about a magazine which was created to cater to the differences between gay marriage and straight marriage without having that article coming across as either emphasizing or downplaying those differences, or both (as I think the article ended up doing, and as I am probably pretty sure the magazine itself does). I don't like that trans people were mentioned as norm-flouters, and I don't like that trans-ness was located as a queer issue at all. But I am happy that trans people were mentioned, and would have been upset if they weren't. It's kind of a weird headspace to be in.
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Date: 2010-07-16 04:13 pm (UTC)The whole article is strange, and the articles the article is about are strange, and yet, it was less faily than I expect of the New York Times, which granted isn't really a ringing endorsement of anyone.
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Date: 2010-07-16 05:11 pm (UTC)(I've been thinking about this from the perspective of someone who worked as an associate editor and reporter at a small newsweekly for about six months a few years ago, but I didn't and don't have any formal training in journalism. It was a really interesting experience and has permanently colored my viewpoint on how and why newspapers pick the stories to run that they do, and why they write about things the way they write about things. To some extent it's a large and complicated and formulated/structured guess at what you think other people are going to like, and what you yourself find interesting.)