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This panel was the "after-dark" sequel to the Beyond Binaries 101 panel I was not a part of. Other than a bit of comedy, by and large the content of this panel didn't really seem to need to be "after-dark" -- third-gender topics are not, and should not be, inherently adults only -- but I'm not sure anyone knew where the panel was going to go when it was conceived of.

The panel benefited from a wide-range of expertise including a panelist who is both widely-published and can tell you more about insect reproduction than you ever wanted to know. This was, believe it or not, totally useful and entertaining.

Overall, however, we often struggled to get "beyond binaries," causing the session itself to demonstrate in many ways just how challenging it is to present in fiction a paradigm other than the gender-dichotomous and usually heteronormative narratives most of us live. This became particularly obvious (and, I felt, problematic and hurtful) when a panelist asserted that readers can only relate to human characters and so third-gendered aliens cannot be narrators in successful stories.

The assumption that third-gendered characters must be alien was a problem. Trans people, queer people, genderqueer people, intersex people, third-gendered people exist, right here, on earth, right now, and are human, and in a well-executed story can be narrators that are effective, plausible and easy to relate to.1 The desire for stories of characters like this, are, additionally, not limited to people who hold these identities, but to those who know them, love them or just want a story about something other than their own damn life.

Books that I mentioned included:

Elizabeth Hand's out-of-print Aestival Tide (non-linear sequel to Winterlong, which I believe is still in print), which features a young hermaphrodite named Reive2 who everyone is afraid of because her (this is how Reive is pronoun-ed in the book) eyes are green, the color of death in a domed city on a future, broken America's gulf coast.

Clive Barker's Imagica that features a character named Pie'oh'pah who appears as what the person zie is interacting with most desires. Pie's true form can only be seen by third party observers, and not even always then. This book can be problematic, Barker isn't great at female characterizations and Pie can read as a "mystical negro" character (although this is complicated by Pie's ability to reflect desire, as well as a number of details regarding Barker's personal life if you choose to consider authorial intent).

Octavia Butler's Xenogensis series, which features a human population's contact with another, differently gendered species and the subsequent absorbtion of the two biologies and cultures into each other.

Many, many other books came up, but I wasn't taking notes, so the comments to this post are a good place for that.

This was one of the panels where the audience asked "what can we do to get more stories that are relevant to us?" I felt this discussion was problematic in the sense that the answer from several of the panelists was "You can't." While the business conservatism of the publishing industry is extremely well, and certainly deserved to be noted and discussed, I thought the attempt to shut down any attempt that was made to be empowering or offer alternative ways of demonstrating and responding to need regarding certain narratives was hurtful.

Not that panels should be all nice and lovely places -- in fact, I thought this panel benefited in terms of entertainment from the frictions amongst the panelists -- but this panel was, from my perspective, largely designed for members and allies of marginalized communities, and I think it's inappropriate in those circumstances to only be able to say "yup, you're marginalized, get used to it." The marginalization and glacial pace of change in the publishing industry, at minimum, merited more possibility-focused discussion.

This was one of the panels I most enjoyed (and was the most well-moderated -- for all the disagreement, everyone stayed gracious. Thanks, [livejournal.com profile] novelfriend!), and I thought it was also one of the most important that I was on, although in the future, it would be wonderful and appropriate to find a trans or intersex writer or critic to be present (Guess what? They exist! And are human and right here on earth!). As a genderqueer person I'm a good step, but certainly did not provide enough diversity in and of myself.

This panel is also one of the ones that's lingered with me in an unsettling way. That has value, and I hope the panel will return again next year, and can perhaps serve its audience better and with more awareness, even as I don't expect anything will have radically changed in the publishing industry between now and then.

If you were there, thank you for attending. Thank you also to the SF & Fantasy Literature Track for hosting the panel and seeing the value in this topic. Feedback is welcome as are book recs and other discussion in comments.



1 This listing originally contained "asexual." As asexual is an orientation, not a gender, listing it in the manner I did was inappropriate and offensive, and I am sorry. The reason for that initial listing was to note that asexual identities did briefly come up in the panel as we tried to get away from the panel's nearly relentless drift back towards discussion of M/F relationships (see: space brothels). I hope this clarifies, and I, of course, stand by the assertion that asexuals exist and that asexual characters can be humans and awesome narrators.
2 Full disclosure: I went by Reive on the Internet for many, many years, and never ran into another one. So if you want to dig around in my sordid past, there you go. I love this book with all my heart.

Date: 2010-09-09 02:03 pm (UTC)
ckd: small blue foam shark (Default)
From: [personal profile] ckd
Carolyn Ives Gilman's Halfway Human comes to mind as an example.

Date: 2010-09-09 02:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyaelfwynn.livejournal.com
I attended and generally thought it was a good panel and agree with your criticisms, for the most part.

I got tired of the dismissiveness of some of the other panelists when it came to getting stuff published and in general thought the two who appeared to be cis men were actually superfluous. They did not add enough interesting to the conversation to merit their inclusion.

I think the fact that they are older and more connected to old school publishing made them unaware of just what sort of impact the internet has had on story telling and just how diverse has gotten and is continuing to get.

Sorry I didn't pop by afterwards and say hey but I'd been fighting dehydration and a miraine much of the day and was wiped. In general, I thought all off the panels of yours I attended were interesting.

Here's 2 more books

Date: 2010-09-09 02:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alienor.livejournal.com
Dark Water's Embrace, Stephen Leigh. (apparently there's now a sequel to this?).
On a alien planet, heterosexual reproduction fails. Hermaphrodites are able to aid in making reproduction work.

Empress of Clouds, Diana Hignutt.
I haven't read this one, but the protagonist is transsexual, IIRC.

Date: 2010-09-09 02:46 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
I agree with your general point, but I have a question:

The assumption that third-gendered characters must be alien was a problem. Trans people, queer people, genderqueer people, intersex people, asexual people, third-gendered people exist, right here, on earth, right now, and are human, and in a well-executed story can be narrators that are effective, plausible and easy to relate to.

While I'm, again, grateful you realize asexuals exist, I'm not quite sure why you included us in this list. While there certainly are asexual people who are also third gendered/defy the gender binary, many (I don't think any studies have been done, so I'm not even going to try to guess percentages) do indeed identify with one of the traditional genders.

I don't think being asexual inherently makes someone third-gendered--they can co-occur, but don't have to. It's entirely possible to be asexual and cis. Or are you saying that the fact that I happen not to feel sexual attraction inherently makes me less female? Because I'd object to that.

Date: 2010-09-09 02:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
I did not mean to imply that. Rather, the panel ranged all over the place in terms of trying to figure out what we were talking about: was the panel intended to be about non-heterosexual content or non-male/female content? We also sort of walked into with different assumptions, none of which matched anyone else's assumptions, and there were points where I at least, felt like I'd bring up anything, to get us out of talking about M/F relationships, which is what kept happening over and over again.

I did not mean to in any way question your or anyone elses gender by that listing, and will remove the reference, perhaps making clear that this was also touched on in the panel elsewhere in another paragraph. I apologize for the offense.

Date: 2010-09-09 02:59 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Oh, don't worry, I'm not offended. For one thing, I wouldn't consider being called non-cis offensive, just inaccurate. Also, I was pretty sure you'd just worded something ambiguously, because I really don't see you as someone who'd try to tell me what gender identity I can have. *g* I just wanted to make clear the not-necessarily-relatedness of the concepts, for other readers as well.

I wasn't at the panel, but I can definitely imagine how something like that would be likely to go all over the place. Thanks for the write-up, it's very interesting. :)

Date: 2010-09-09 03:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
Yay! Cool. I torture sentences to death, so it's very easy for me to be a) unclear and b) an asshole without meaning to be. (of course, I can also c) be an asshole without realizing why I'm an asshole, but that was not this day).

I honestly wish I had a transcript of that panel. It was so remarkably emblematic of the anxieties in the SF/F lit community about marginalization, old vs. new publishing, diversity, sex, that it was astounding. I don't know if we got anything done, but it was a pretty amazing live-action demonstration.

Date: 2010-09-09 03:20 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Hmm... maybe you could try to get as many people as possible who were there to do a write-up (*without* comparing notes first) and then collect the links to them all in one place? I bet it'd be fascinating to see different people's accounts of how they experienced the same event.

I think the panel achieved something just by showcasing those anxieties.

Date: 2010-09-09 03:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
That would be awesome. I'm not sure how I could make that happen -- there's a couple of people I could email who get up later than me or are West Coast who probably haven't seen this yet.

In the future, I'd really love to try to do recordings/transcripts of some panels if folks are okay with that. Aside from more access to information for more people, it has the potential to be a valuable historical record in terms of the evolution of the genre.

Date: 2010-09-09 03:26 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Recordings would be great! I'd love to watch/listen to one.

Date: 2010-09-12 10:00 pm (UTC)
ext_1056: (Default)
From: [identity profile] booknerdguru.livejournal.com
I have my notes typed up that I have not yet put on LJ. I was planning on posting them tonight or tomorrow. If you'd like, I can link the post here?

Date: 2010-09-09 02:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
I have edited and made a clarifying footnote regarding my error. Once again my apologies.

Date: 2010-09-09 03:00 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
I hope this clarifies, and I, of course, stand by the assertion that asexuals exist and that asexual characters can be humans and awesome narrators.

*big hugs*

Date: 2010-09-09 06:35 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] ophymirage.livejournal.com
hey yamx, question for you (if you don't mind.) there's a lot of discussion suddenly going on regarding asexuality/demisexuality/something called 'grey'? in relation to the new Sherlock fandom, and I'm trying to be a good beta and educate & ground myself and my author appropriately. (And I've always found the question of lit!Sherlock's sexuality-or-not fascinating anyway, so am interested in 'new' approaches to reading the character.)

Are there internet resources you would recommend as reasonably knowledgeable on the subject, for beginning reading? Books are fine too, though it'll take me longer to get to them (and I suspect would be somewhat less up-to-date than the tubez, but more information is always better.)

I hope this doesn't come across as yet another 'educate me about your life' request, it's certainly not intended as such. :) Thanks for any info you can provide. :D - Ophy

Date: 2010-09-09 06:47 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Oh, thank you! I'm always happy to educate people about asexuality. (Well, not "always." Don't call me at 6 a.m. *g*)

I really like this site from the BBC as a starting point:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A4455263

Also, there's AVEN, the Asexual Visibility and Education Network:
http://www.asexuality.org/home/

There are lots of articles there, links to blogs, a forum, and even a Wiki.

Hope this helps! :)

Date: 2010-09-09 07:08 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] ophymirage.livejournal.com
Both of those look *brilliant* as starting points to not committing orientation!fail. thank you very much. :)

Date: 2010-09-09 07:10 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
You're welcome.

If you have any specific questions, feel free. (Keeping in mind of course that I'm just me, not the official spokesperson for all asexuals or anything. *g*)

Date: 2010-09-09 07:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] valancy-joy.livejournal.com
jumping in here to say I found this LJ comm: asexy_sherlock the other day when I stumbled across an is Sherlock asexual or not discussion...

in case that helps. it's very new, but there are some links to meta tucked in there...
Edited Date: 2010-09-09 07:35 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-09-09 09:24 pm (UTC)
ext_107588: (Default)
From: [identity profile] ophymirage.livejournal.com
Valancy, thanks, I'll take a look. and I have TOTAL love for your icon there & want to steal it badly. :D

Date: 2010-09-09 03:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com
I wish I had thought to bring this up at the panel, but Caitlin Kiernan has written some fantastic hard sci-fi with queer characters. Her collection A is for Alien is quite good. she's also written a lot of terrifying/fantastical/speculative fiction that uses queer characters as protagonists. Her work is pretty challenging and diverse.

just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-09 04:16 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jeliza
In a sf context, I had been thinking of asexual as possibly either a gender identity or an orientation -- Bone Dance being the book that jumps to mind immediately (is there anyway to say that without being crazy spoilery? Gah.) Perhaps a better label for such a character would be ungendered?

Re: just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-09 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
I have not read that book, but I've definitely seen ungendered characters in fiction, so yeah, that goes on the list too. Unfortunately I think it also means we have to discuss that AWFUL Star Trek episode again (which came up during the panel to much hilarity).

Re: just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-09 04:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jeliza
I apparently, probably thankfully, missed that one. :) I do recommend Bone Dance, though it's been a few years since I read it (not surprising, since it was published in 91.)

Re: just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-09 11:51 pm (UTC)
yamx: (Default)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Is that the one where Riker falls in love and "having a gender" is used a a thinly (REALLY thinly) disguised metaphor for homosexuality... and then things get worse?

About the only thing I liked about that ep was that it showcased the strength of Worf's friendship...

Re: just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-09 11:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
That would be the one. It kept coming up on panels I was on. I couldn't escape it. It was sort of horrible.

Re: just mental doodling

Date: 2010-09-10 12:03 am (UTC)
yamx: (asexual_53x)
From: [personal profile] yamx
Oh, I'm sorry.

On the plus side, at least it's not Angel One! ;)

Date: 2010-09-09 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bodlon.livejournal.com
Another book which may be relevant (and you're probably already aware of) is Ursula K. LeGuin's The Left Hand of Darkness, which features a species that genders only to reproduce (and thinks humanity is sort of vulgar as a result).

I wonder if the track committee would be interested in watching for Tiptree nominees in the future? There's a massive pool of writers who work with sexuality and gender and do a damn fine job of it. I'd love to see more folks like that on panels like this.

Date: 2010-09-09 09:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rm.livejournal.com
That's a very good point. I have no idea if there were any Tiptree nominees on the D*C guest list this year.

And the LeGuin book totally came up (I'm terrible and haven't read it, which I need to remedy).

Date: 2010-09-10 06:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] redstapler.livejournal.com
I had a wonderful professor in college who managed to shoe-horn it into practically every modern-lit class she taught. She thinks it's *that* important a story.

Date: 2010-09-10 12:53 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] eredien
This looks like it's a fascinating panel. I've been doing a lot of research on gender, sexuality, and the idea of complementarity for a short story recently, and for that one of the things I've recently read is Kenji Yoshino's excellent essay "the epistemic contract of bisexual erasure," which talks about how and why bisexual people get erased or defined via legal decisions in the US. Reading your experience of the panel reminds me (again) that there's a whole lot of non-legal (I hesitate to say non-political) erasure of non-standard-gendered people even in spaces where you might not expect to see it.

I mean, seriously--SF/F is supposed to be the literature of the possible that isn't, and when we go to panels we're told that having a SF/F literature of our actual isn't possible.

Date: 2010-09-10 01:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anotheranon.livejournal.com
This sounds like it would have been a great panel to sit in on. I appreciate your write up, but I'm suspecting it's a much richer experience seeing the back-and-forth.

I'm still familiarizing myself with third gender issues and working on becoming a good ally, and it's remarkable how hard it is for me to break the binary-thinking "programming". Learning the correct words (intersex, genderqueer etc.) helps me enormously - I find it's easier to get my head around something when I know the proper names to use, if that makes sense.

Date: 2010-09-10 02:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hierokeryx.livejournal.com
i'm mostly commenting to say yay, an Elizabeth Hand fan! Aestival Tide is one of the few books by her i haven't read. i keep meaning to get a copy.

i work for a small publisher, so i do know that this is not the best time in the industry, but i do not understand this notion that books with third-gendered characters, or any other group that has traditionally been marginalized, can't get published and won't be read. i read all kinds of books featuring all kinds of narrators who are all kinds of things i'm not. what i look for, and what i think at least some other readers look for, are compelling stories with interesting characters. bascially, good writing. their excuse really is just plain old conservatism, no matter how they try to sell it. i don't think this will save publishing, and it does a deep disservice to every reader and every writer who has that door unjustly slammed on them.

Book Recs from Panel

Date: 2010-09-12 10:46 pm (UTC)
ext_1056: (Default)
From: [identity profile] booknerdguru.livejournal.com
The White Plague - Frank Herbert
Ethan of Athos - Lois McMaster Bujold
Their Majesty's Bucketeers - L. Neil Smith
Dreamsnake - Vonda N. MacIntyre
The Lovers - Philip Jose Farmer

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