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(Actually, I have this whole feeling about this lately; like once you get past this idea that if you don't execute on all your ideas you're some sort of fraud and that if the point of being a creative person is to have ideas, then you naturally have a lot more ideas and you execute on a lot more ideas, because you're no longer living in terror that too many ideas is inappropriate, unprofessional, or going to end in tragedy when death eventually prevents you from doing everything. The second you give yourself permission not to finish everything, the more avenues you can explore and the more shit you do finish -- it's great, and, for me, seems like this grown-up sort of accepting death thing. Say it with me: Concept testing is not a lack of commitment. All things end, but hey, let's race!)
Anyway, this idea: this is an anthology. I'm trying to just sort of ask around with some useful questions here and there, it can be "in development" until it needs to be something else. But it's an idea I really like. I don't want to put ALL my energy into it, but if it's doable, I think it's a good thing that really serves. So if anyone works in general-interest nonfiction publishing and wants me thinking thoughts at them, get in touch, yes? Thnx.
Anyway, I think grey can look great on people of both genders, especially people with young faces or a lot of face to carry the grey so they don't look washed out -- that'd be me.
However, as a woman, grey, no matter how hot it looks, codes to all sort of things that aren't useful to me and are too misogynistic to even mention here. Of course, I'm more personally responsive to a male coding of it, which is hot, but that's all well and good, I can only make what's going on in my head so present in your head. But I don't feel like dyeing over my damn grey. But I also feel dissatisfied that it's not more grey (because I'd like to not be treated like a child, which as a woman who looks very young I often am). And am horrified that I'm even having this discussion with you, oh Internet.
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Date: 2010-10-27 10:10 am (UTC)You are such a model of decorum and restraint. I would have skipped over wanting to holler right to throttling the hairdresser. "Concerned"? REALLY? Christ.
But I don't feel like dyeing over my damn grey.
My Aunt began going salt and pepper by the age of 25. By 30, she had a head full of the shiniest silver hair. At 55, the silver is not quite as bright, but still glorious. She keeps it at a length similar to yours in your icon, and she looks fantastic. She has never dyed it.
If you don't wanna dye it, don't! I'll bet you'd look smashing!