I just want to say that relieving myself of the pressure of having to do sundries every day with the mix of articles and descriptions that makes everyone happy has been really good for me. That said, I'll still do some sometimes (see!) and I'm thinking of doing a "trash day" of links once a week on Letters from Titan. Win/win?
Also on LfT: longer post about the Patty travel thing. Meanwhile, am starting to fill in About and some of the other pages. Also, wow, I can see how people get to the blog. It is.... fascinating at times. Especially the Google searches.
gwyd blogged this great article on claiming butch identity. Tangentally I want to add: there's no one way to be a man, a lesbian, or even butch (as perhaps evidenced by the feedback when I auditioned to play Billy Tipton a few years ago).
D&J meeting on Monday. Novel meeting on Wednesday. People who will be playing along for DW/SJA/TW watching for my chapter research in NYC, expect a scheduling email this weekend. Other people I owe email/planning to: I'm getting there. I have a nasty work backlog that won't be fully cleared until Sunday night.
The return of Fraunces Tavern. Ten years ago, and this would have been our regular bar. But that was another life (one that seems to like trading quips with me on Twitter lately).
Stuff I did on my own did not interest or at least worry my parents. But my collaborative play and early writing was extremely alarming to them (this was then later justified by some pretty intense, out there, Heavenly Creatures-esque drama from my best friend in high school) and so the world of other people always required secrecy. Sometimes I think I am an only child because they feared conspiracy from small creatures.
While my father in particular plied me with all the role-playing accoutrements I wanted in part because it meant that I'd finally found friends. Also comics, because of the swapping.
(And then I ended up doing mostly solo stuff. My friends were a) boringly straightforward in their play and b) boys who kept trying to gender-police, so I ditched them.)
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Date: 2011-01-06 08:23 pm (UTC)(And then I ended up doing mostly solo stuff. My friends were a) boringly straightforward in their play and b) boys who kept trying to gender-police, so I ditched them.)
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