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Sorry, new and improved version. I left out some important options.

I realize this is entirely non-scientific and because LJ skews towards women even more unscientific for that. But I tend to think these little exercises still have their uses and least when it comes to reminding people about privilege (or I may turn out to be totally wrong).

ETA:

to answer some frequent questions:

1. Unwanted contact from a person you are in a relationship with should be read as a sexual overture (possibly entirely appropriate but you weren't in the mood) was made that you rejected, BUT the rejection was then not heeded in a fashion that you feel harmed you/violated your person/rights.

2. I know, I left out a choice for boss/coworker/clergy member/teacher/professional relationship/person in position of authority -- please put it in the acquaintance category. This was noticed too late to redo the poll and I'll note it when I do the results summary post.

3. If you are trans, genderqueer, etc. and want to answer in more than one category based on how you were presenting at the time, that's fine.

4. The way LJ shows the answers to this isn't actually that statistically interesting to what I'm trying to capture, and I will eventually make a post about some other things I'm seeing somewhat buried in the numbers.

5. Yes, your answers are viewable to everyone. There's a point to that too that will be discussed later as well.

6. Feel free to link to this in your own journal.

7. THANK YOU.


[Poll #1175760]

Date: 2008-04-23 02:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] delicatetbone.livejournal.com
There are two main things that women never talk about, and yet so many of them have experienced it (the stats vary):
Being Raped
Having an Abortion

I find it incredibly depressing how much these two often very female-experiences are stigmatized in our society...swept under the rug and treated like unmentionables.

Date: 2008-04-23 05:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] catrinaz.livejournal.com
i chose to tell just about everybody i know that i was raped last year. that's one of the main reasons. (the other being that my ptsd is such a big part of what i'm dealing with everyday that i can't imagine interacting with people who didn't know.)

Date: 2008-04-23 05:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] delicatetbone.livejournal.com
I talk about both my rape and abortion with much frequency....and what at first surprised me was how many women open up to me and tell me their own stories. Now I almost know I'm going to hear "well i have a story too..." Honestly it's amazing how many women keep quiet.

I wish you love and healing and I think it's important that our stories keep on being told, regardless if they're heard or not.

Date: 2008-04-24 09:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spherissa.livejournal.com
When I had my abortion it was like being let into a secret club in my family and certain people. Some people I wouldn't have told given my choice. Mainly cause I don't like talking about my sex life with my grandmamma and so forth.

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