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Sorry, new and improved version. I left out some important options.

I realize this is entirely non-scientific and because LJ skews towards women even more unscientific for that. But I tend to think these little exercises still have their uses and least when it comes to reminding people about privilege (or I may turn out to be totally wrong).

ETA:

to answer some frequent questions:

1. Unwanted contact from a person you are in a relationship with should be read as a sexual overture (possibly entirely appropriate but you weren't in the mood) was made that you rejected, BUT the rejection was then not heeded in a fashion that you feel harmed you/violated your person/rights.

2. I know, I left out a choice for boss/coworker/clergy member/teacher/professional relationship/person in position of authority -- please put it in the acquaintance category. This was noticed too late to redo the poll and I'll note it when I do the results summary post.

3. If you are trans, genderqueer, etc. and want to answer in more than one category based on how you were presenting at the time, that's fine.

4. The way LJ shows the answers to this isn't actually that statistically interesting to what I'm trying to capture, and I will eventually make a post about some other things I'm seeing somewhat buried in the numbers.

5. Yes, your answers are viewable to everyone. There's a point to that too that will be discussed later as well.

6. Feel free to link to this in your own journal.

7. THANK YOU.


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Date: 2008-04-23 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bernmarx.livejournal.com
my only negative reaction to the poll

Yet another interesting point for me. I read the comments (from, apparently, females) mentioning that filling this out was stressful, but for me, it was just a bunch of clicky-clicks. Again, I'd guess that's related to the pervasiveness issue. The events (with two exceptions) didn't really register deep into my memory because they were minor and rare (e.g., having somebody grab my ass while they walked by... I'm sure it's happened, but I couldn't give you details).

Date: 2008-04-23 06:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zarq.livejournal.com
For me, the incidents in question were traumatic. There's discomfort in revisiting them, as well as putting them into the public eye. Even in this very limited way.

Date: 2008-04-23 09:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bernmarx.livejournal.com
Ah. I'm sorry to hear that, and sorry for the inappropriate generalization.

Date: 2008-04-23 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zarq.livejournal.com
No worries. It wasn't inappropriate -- it's your subjective experience, which is as valid as anyone else's.

Date: 2008-04-24 09:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spherissa.livejournal.com
For me ticking boxes wasn't stressful (and I clicked all of them except for the never had box) on the other hand sitting down and writing about some of the experiences those boxes represent would be Quite stressful. Particularly actually the one about current partner, because said person is my current partner, and I do love him, but our current relationship is a mess and the Event which was not rape but was Something-- has put a dint on how I am able to express myself around him now. Meh.

I guess I am saying that the events registered for me, well not all of them, but some of them, but ticking ticky boxes didn't make me want to weep.

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