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http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/07/us/07aging.html

Fascinating article on the harm of addressing seniors with elder-speak.

But what really struck me? The toll of words like "sweetie" and "dear" that the article notes are also used for children in a way that can also be disrespectful and isolating. What the article doesn't note: is that these words are used in the same way on women of all ages, and yes, it makes us angry and uncooperative too.

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As far North as Baltimore

[haya.livejournal.com]

I hear the word Hon, with people I don't know.
I probably hear these things more than most people because some find it hard to learn my name. Methinks it's overthought, and should be addressed person to person.