You can still help the fight for marriage equality in Maine. If you are a Maine resident, you need to vote. In fact, if there is a local election in your area today, please be sure to vote. These elections tend to have very low turn-out and its how extremists get weird referendums passed and anti-science people onto school boards. It's always good to vote.
What makes an American? Or, let's watch people be anti-immigrant racists about the guy who just won the New York City Marathon.
Thanks. I hope you understand I wasn't looking for you to be my tour guide on the issue. Rather I seriously find the things you say very thought provoking. I appreciate your answer.
Yup, it's all good. One of the other things that can be weird about this stuff, is as much as I do need to think about these issues, sometimes I just don't, since I'm often like "oh hey, one for our team!"
I think I used a bad example too. Because the reason it was news was because it was a first. I was pleased in the fact that I think every time we have a first it makes it a lot easier to have the next million. It just started me thinking it. I think it niggles at me more when it is "Gay man saves drowning child" -type stories. It always feels to me that it is just a SHOCK that someone who is gay could do something so good. Anyhow...thanks again!
One more data point for you. I now go nuts in articles when they mention someone's partner and I can't figure out if it's a gay or a straight partner. As a queer person, I still want the data apparently. Don't know if that's good or bad.
I tend to assume if they say partner they mean gay until proven otherwise. Apparently, it's a code word in my mind. Obviously, this means I'm pretty often wrong, but it's kind of comforting to be breaking the default occasionally. And, at least partner beats gay lover or "husband" in passive-aggressive inverted commas.
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