Some people I know have received some horrifically bad news. I am sad.
Meanwhile, I'm still behind on my NaNo quota, but I wrote another great chapter yesterday and started another chapter that I really need to finish today, although I am not sure when.
Hand to heart, I don't think the disclosure thing is something that will ever be easy in our generation. I know I tend to lead with it on dating sites, and I don't really make a secret of my trans status, but I can think of instances where it was not going to be the first thing out of my mouth for eleventy-billion reasons, one of which has absolutely been the desire to shag or date. The hope is always that someone will see me first, and then accept (and even, holy crap, totally dig?) my hybrid anatomy on account of the rest of the awesome.
But damn, the lying liar narrative is such a huge presence in our culture. And the "but you're really a..." thing. Seventeen need to back the fuck up and run a real, actual, not-sensationalized article on this stuff. This is not okay.
I like to consider myself the "Green Eggs and Ham" on the social/sexual buffet.
Date: 2009-11-04 05:15 pm (UTC)But damn, the lying liar narrative is such a huge presence in our culture. And the "but you're really a..." thing. Seventeen need to back the fuck up and run a real, actual, not-sensationalized article on this stuff. This is not okay.