you kinky dino, you sundries
Nov. 7th, 2009 03:07 pmSpecifically, the community says "Gender themes (gender confusion; sex changes; genderfucks; hermaphrodites; cross-dressing or other forms of genderbending; drag queens and transvestites; androgyny; forced feminization; butch/femme; tomboys)."
Department of newsflash:
1. I am not a kink;
2. I am not a "genderfuck," but thank you for playing, and, by the way...
3. What about characters who canonically are or do any of those things (i.e., Desire from Sandman, Pie'oh'Pah from Imajica, etc.) Also the enforcement of gender norms can very much be a kink too.
Anyway, while I totally get the point of the community, they really may want to take a look at the degree to which their verbiage is a pretty vicious, heteronormative fuck you. Also, there's a ton of other really problematic shit lurking on there as well (all virgins are kinks; apparently so is all rape recovery).
(Image created by About.com is of two cartoon dino silhouettes kissing; it makes me happy.)
(I had an excerpt up a moment ago but then took it away, because I'm feeling vulnerable and weird about the whole thing).
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Date: 2009-11-07 10:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-11-07 10:57 pm (UTC)vore...
Snort! Dare ya! XD
You know, on further reading of this comm it doesn't seem very heternorm or cis to me, either. Where are the Mary Sues in danger? I've read a lot of cis-conforming pulp romance novels (oh Gran, you should have hidden that trunk better...) and the obsessive emphasis in those books on breasts, villainous rapists, semi-con with the curt "hero", and kidnapping, domination, and hurt/comfort sex is legendary.
I always snicker and point first and then my brain (trained by MOM!) starts going "Now now, let's be fair here..." so my thinker is thinking and what I'm seeing is a group of people deeply phobic of sex and most expressions of physical intimacy. I don't want to say asexual, because asexuals aren't necessarily averse to reading or writing about sex (at least the ones I know), but there's some definite phobia here. Puzzling.
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Date: 2009-11-07 11:21 pm (UTC)I DOUBLE DARE YA!!! :O)