sundries

[rm]

Hope Witsell was not a whore.

She didn't play a dangerous game. Her sexuality was not immoral. She did not rob herself of her own childhood.

She did, however, kill herself.

Bullying kills. Sex negativity kills. Misogyny kills. Not the Internet (hell, sometimes the Internet can help you get justice). Not a teenager being a teenager. Not taking your clothes off. Not wanting approval. Not new technology.

I will say this over and over again. Bullying is not just a childhood phenomena (workplace bullying happens ALL THE TIME, and geez, we're all on the Internet, yeah?) nor is it one of those things kids just need to learn to deal with (I do agree our society is too protective of children, bullying is not a part of this in my mind), nor is it something the child who is targeted should be blamed for. Additionally, adults should not participate in bullying children. Should be obvious right? It wasn't obvious in my own childhood and apparently it's still not.

Hope Witsell was not a whore.

There's a reason plants eat zombies.

People who are non-guests but hoping/expecting to be on Gallifrey panels: have you heard anything? Should I have heard anything? I did contact through the Gally form after there was a notice about it on GB, and I know some of you mentioned me to the powers that be prior to that, but ... I worry.

legionseagle raised some good points (by referencing the most logically off and poorly researched meta I think I've ever read -- but I skip a lot) with me in my last sundries post about the Infinitus proposal. I think it's something I'm still capable of doing, but not necessarily in the crunchy timeframe that paper is going to get because of the rest of the 2010 landscape. I'm trying to formulate some cogent thoughts on whether the HP universe is really about love as JKR and much of the text claims. I see a lot more duty than love. And while you can do your duty out of love, this disturbs me. Particularly, I am still stuck on -- will perhaps always be stuck on -- Kreacher talking about drinking the liquid in the cave. He is asked why he did not die. And he says it is because his master had asked (ordered) him to come back. It is, I believe, the single darkest, most horrifying moment in the whole series. And I want to talk about it.

Infinitus really wants queer content because of the whole gay Dumbledore thing, but other than the Snape/female heroism paper I've given twice now, I've got nothing.

Argh!

Alun Vega has very graciously sent me a bunch of high res pics of the Ianto memorial for my paper research for Bristol.

I hate this campaign. I wrote Dockers to tell them so. They wrote me back about how it's designed to get men to celebrate their manhood through khakis and they're sorry it didn't resonate with me. Oppressive gender conformity, the association of feminine traits with childhood, the completely false claim that we live in a genderless society, and the aspersions on androgyny, do more than "not resonate" with me, they offend me. If you wish to contact them yourselves, you can do so with this form.

I have all sorts of problems with HRC (mostly, but not entirely, related to trans issues) but their 2010 Buying for Equality Guide is informative.

Because it seemed likely to fail, the New Jersey vote on gay marriage has been cancelled. We are, it seems, in retreat.

I miss ConSweet, but I have a couple more things that have to be finished first before I can go back to it. But I heard a song today and thought "hah, I miss Evan." Strange feeling. At least it's not a disturbing feeling. Very glad he finally found a life of his own in my head.

CultureGeek Reader's Choice Awards.

Police shoot and kill illegal street vendor in Times Square accused of intimidating tourists with CD scam.

reannon links us to an interesting article about whether the increase in Oscar nominees will get SF/F films out of the "technical ghetto." I hate that the number of nominees has been expanded, and I don't think it'll change much. Lots of SF/F stuff is just blowing up things in a brave new world, but lots of great films have been not recognized over the years, and I expect that to continue for a while yet. The geeks may have inherited the earth, but lots of people who have gotten the memo would like to take it back.

I've not made our cards yet. Or done any holiday shopping. Or, like ANYTHING.

Comments

[rm.livejournal.com]

Send them a note, then I will perhaps not be alone in the wilderness.

[brewsternorth.livejournal.com]

I would if I could find a contact addy on their site... maybe I'm just being dense.

[rm.livejournal.com]

It's a huge pain to find: http://us.dockers.com/helpdesk/index.jsp?display=store&subdisplay=contact

[sihaya09.livejournal.com]

I did.

[pennswoods.livejournal.com]

Done. And thank you for the link.

[annlarimer.livejournal.com]

Done.

"Forgive my bluntness, but your "Wear the Pants" campaign is both stupid and offensive. Lattes, apparently, make men gay -- or, worse, female? Our society is genderless? Your tissue-thin, wedgie-inducing wrinkle-the-first-time-you-sit-down-in-them trousers are going to induce maturity? I'm sure you mean this to be funny, but basically it's one girl humping a drainpipe away from being an Axe body spray ad.

The best thing I ever did with a pair of Dockers was rip the seams open and remake them into a skirt."

[delchi.livejournal.com]

I did the same thing with a pair of dockers once ... but it was by accident. Dockers have a tendency to instantly shred and wear out in the inner thigh area. Any kind of chafing and the life expectancy of the pants can be measured in weeks.

[amara-1783.livejournal.com]

Done. What an appalling ad. Thanks for the link.

The response from Dockers...

[amara-1783.livejournal.com]

Thank you for contacting Customer Service at www.dockersstore.com.

We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause.


Sincerely,

Sonia S.
Customer Service Representative
Customer Service at www.dockersstore.com

If you have additional questions, please visit our online Help Desk.

Re: The response from Dockers...

[rm.livejournal.com]

Hahahhahahaha, that's even more ridiculous than the one I got.

Re: The response from Dockers...

[elionwyr.livejournal.com]

Well, at least they're not canned responses..I got this:
~~~
Thank you for contacting Customer Service at www.dockersstore.com.

We sincerely apologize if our recent ad offended you. We appreciate the feedback and opinions of all our customers. We will forward your comments to our corporate office.

Please let us know if there is anything else we can do for you, and
thank you again for contacting Customer Service at www.dockersstore.com.

Sincerely,

Re: The response from Dockers...

[heron61.livejournal.com]

I got pretty much the same thing:

Sarah here from Levi's(r).  Thanks for checking in with us.

The Dockers(r) "Wear The Pants" campaign is intended to give men a reason to love their khakis, the focus of this campaign.  We apologize if our efforts did not resonate with you.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.  We'll definitely pass them along to our Marketing colleagues who pay close attention to consumer feedback.

Re: The response from Dockers...

[elionwyr.livejournal.com]

I just got that one, too.