You know, when I was a kid I had intensely overprotective parents. But at the same time, no one had a cell phone. No one had a laptop that was being used to spy on you and partof growing up was learning about lying -- how to get away with stuff ("I couldn't find a payphone.") and the very real consequences of lies when you got busted. Maybe less sneaky kids will make better business leaders. On the other hand, maybe less sneaky kids just produces a generation that expects to be policed into utter conformity. I don't know, but it sure does make me nervous (an aside: is Buffy the last teen-focused show that was a big hit where kids get away with stuff because everyone doesn't have a mobile?).
You know, when I was a kid I had intensely overprotective parents. But at the same time, no one had a cell phone. No one had a laptop that was being used to spy on you and partof growing up was learning about lying -- how to get away with stuff ("I couldn't find a payphone.") and the very real consequences of lies when you got busted. Maybe less sneaky kids will make better business leaders. On the other hand, maybe less sneaky kids just produces a generation that expects to be policed into utter conformity. I don't know, but it sure does make me nervous (an aside: is Buffy the last teen-focused show that was a big hit where kids get away with stuff because everyone doesn't have a mobile?).
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Date: 2010-02-18 07:04 pm (UTC)I'm the youngest of five, but only lived with my next-oldest sibling.
For whatever reason--his popularity, the fact he was a boy, the fact he was a 6'2 boy--I never felt I had the same reign of freedom he did.
I really didn't start pushing the limits of the rules until I was almost through with high school.
That isn't to say I didn't kick up shenanigans when I was younger, it just necessitated sleeping at a friend's house.
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Date: 2010-02-18 07:10 pm (UTC)I'm the youngest of four and also only lived with my next-oldest brother, my other sibs are sisters.
He is a very protective brother, but I could rely on him to pick me up if I was in trouble (which happened only twice, thank god, one time my dad came along and that was mortifying).
And dittoy on the sleeping at friends. Many shenanigans were had in that way :)