grrrrrrrrr

[rm]

Read this: http://www.livejournal.com/users/karnythia/416490.html -- in which the government informs us, among other things, that no one likes a smart girl.

Seethe.

Take my poll. (Btw, LJ polls drive me crazy, because I want to do a lot of "if, then, skip to" etc., but I can't. So these things aren't just unscientific, but sloppy. But doing it made me feel better. I apologize if I left out the answer you wanted, I try really hard to be inclusive in these things, but live and learn, also, hi, at work and distracted.).


[Poll #632346]

Comments

[saltbox.livejournal.com]

Hmm, I'm breaking the rules of your poll and just listing my five major needs and noting that I happen to be a woman: conversation, recreational companionship, physical attractiveness, sexual fulfillment, and honesty and openness. This actually only applies to monogamous relationships, though--in a poly relationship, I could get various needs met through different people, which would probably mean that sexual fulfillment would end up being less important in a primary relationship.

That said, some domestic support would be nice, but not nice enough to put up with someone telling me I should be neater. I'd rather live with a complete slob that even have the remotest risk that I will get tssked.

Also, I'm expecting to end up probably having to provide financial support for awhile, and that's fine with me. It was the model I was raised with, after all; my mom was the "breadwinner" during my formative years. I think I actually feel more comfortable with that. Hell, my life would be far simpler if D *didn't* want a job.