unless your mail goes much faster than mine. I'd think they would get it Monday/Tuesday.
They could be waiting until you are well to discuss it? Or maybe until then to invite you both to a nice dinner? Good luck. I guess you have to not know for a while. (((HUGS)))
Personally? If I were you, I'd wait until your health is back to 100% and then decide how you want to bring it up with them. They could also be waiting for you to feel better, not wanting to add more stress to your system, not realizing that a lack of response is stressful.
bear in mind that it is tax season, and easter and passover are both this coming week, so the post office may be running a little more slowly on their appointed rounds.
Hey, so I usually don't listen to voiceposts because when I was in DC, I had bad internet from home and my workplace firewalled all voiceposts, so I never got into the habit of it. But yow, your voice reminds me of an ex's, Bl. And your relationship with Kali seems like my relationship with yet another ex, F (with you being the analogue of my ex). And no, this is not me trying to hit on you. Just wanted to respond that when I came out to my parents (not in an "I'm bi" kind of way but an "and this is my girlfriend" kind of way, like you), they were in denial of it for a long time. In fact, they managed to remain in denial for the extent of the whole relationship with F (two years). And now that I'm dating a guy, they've managed to "forget" all of it. Don't discount the power of denial. (Though in my case, the culture barrier might have made the situation even more confusing to them, who knows.)
Denial is seeming more plausible. Which, truly, is pissing me off, even as I should view it as a repreive -- but at the same time, I feel like it has the potential to force me, over and over, to choose whether I am a coward or not.
but at the same time, I feel like it has the potential to force me, over and over, to choose whether I am a coward or not.
It does. And it sucks. I had to keep reminding my parents over and over and I still had very little indication that any of it sunk in. (Except for a few times when my parents would point out that actresses I had crushes on were on some movie on TV or something). Sorry you're going through this.
I don't know if it's denial or giving you the opening to say "I'm fine, did you get my letter?" or "I'm fine, and would you and Dad like to come to dinner with me and Kali?"
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They may not have gotten it yet..
Date: 2006-04-08 11:28 pm (UTC)I'd think they would get it Monday/Tuesday.
They could be waiting until you are well to discuss it? Or maybe until then to invite you both to a nice dinner?
Good luck. I guess you have to not know for a while.
(((HUGS)))
Re: They may not have gotten it yet..
Date: 2006-04-08 11:43 pm (UTC)Re: They may not have gotten it yet..
Date: 2006-04-08 11:52 pm (UTC)They may not know how to bring it up, or what to do at all.
I'm sure it seems obvious to us.
I hope they are not trying to deny it, but I agree that it's a possibility.
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Date: 2006-04-09 02:10 am (UTC)Personally? If I were you, I'd wait until your health is back to 100% and then decide how you want to bring it up with them. They could also be waiting for you to feel better, not wanting to add more stress to your system, not realizing that a lack of response is stressful.
Good luck.
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Date: 2006-04-09 02:43 am (UTC)bear in mind that it is tax season, and easter and passover are both this coming week, so the post office may be running a little more slowly on their appointed rounds.
and more breathing.
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Date: 2006-04-09 05:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-04-09 06:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-04-09 06:08 pm (UTC)It does. And it sucks. I had to keep reminding my parents over and over and I still had very little indication that any of it sunk in. (Except for a few times when my parents would point out that actresses I had crushes on were on some movie on TV or something). Sorry you're going through this.
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Date: 2006-04-09 09:22 pm (UTC)