you kinky dino, you sundries
Nov. 7th, 2009 03:07 pmSpecifically, the community says "Gender themes (gender confusion; sex changes; genderfucks; hermaphrodites; cross-dressing or other forms of genderbending; drag queens and transvestites; androgyny; forced feminization; butch/femme; tomboys)."
Department of newsflash:
1. I am not a kink;
2. I am not a "genderfuck," but thank you for playing, and, by the way...
3. What about characters who canonically are or do any of those things (i.e., Desire from Sandman, Pie'oh'Pah from Imajica, etc.) Also the enforcement of gender norms can very much be a kink too.
Anyway, while I totally get the point of the community, they really may want to take a look at the degree to which their verbiage is a pretty vicious, heteronormative fuck you. Also, there's a ton of other really problematic shit lurking on there as well (all virgins are kinks; apparently so is all rape recovery).
(Image created by About.com is of two cartoon dino silhouettes kissing; it makes me happy.)
(I had an excerpt up a moment ago but then took it away, because I'm feeling vulnerable and weird about the whole thing).
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Date: 2009-11-08 01:18 am (UTC)I find it kind of odd that the comm feels the need to list all the specific kinks that are outlawed, while still being very vague about it. I think that's the problem with trying to define a comm too narrowly. There's no way you can ban everything that could possibly be kinky to someone. It's impossible and would result in really boring fics. What would be so bad about leaving it up to the writers to decide if their fics fit the comm, and take moderator action only if necessary?