Now, granted, your consideration of others about your kids is awesome, as is your consideration of your kids about others (kids don't always want to be in adult spaces anymore than all adults welcome kids in all adult spaces), and I appreciate and welcome that. You are awesome, and if you are awesome, I'm sorry that some people are such assholes to you about the fact that hey, having kids was the best choice for you.
I'm gluten-free, because gluten causes me harm. Other people's reasonably behaved (in a kid-like way that, yes, is sometimes loud or crying) kids, unless they randomly, literally bite my ankles or have a meltdown on a plane (and what can you do about that, sometimes I feel like I'm going to have a meltdown on a plane too; kids melting down on planes, I stand with you in solidarity!) don't cause me harm. I don't need to deal with them like they're an allergen, and in most cases, neither does anyone else.
As a person without kids, who thinks kids are pretty okay but will say something to a parent if they don't tell their kid to stop smacking me on the subway (hello, Monday), I'd really like if people like me, you know, existed, as opposed to these caricatures that people fall into of "Parent who will beat you over the head with their child's car seat" and "child-free person whose freedom is destroyed every time they see a child from anything less than 500ft."
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Date: 2010-07-28 05:09 pm (UTC)I don't call myself "childfree" even though my spouse and I don't want kids, I just call myself "not ready for kids." It does get a little more difficult since hitting my thirties, since lots of people still seem to get on me for being past my twenties and married to a member of the opposite sex and fertile but with no offspring. I explain that I have medical conditions that would make pregnancy painful, scary, and complicated. They don't seem to hear it. They definitely don't hear "tocophobia" (fear of pregnancy and childbirth).
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Date: 2010-07-28 06:23 pm (UTC)Did you loose power on Sun.? Has it come back yet? With how long it takes to fix power outages around here, it's hard to remember that we're living in the 21st century. ;-p
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Date: 2010-07-28 09:05 pm (UTC)Yep, we lost power. Husband bought a generator on Monday. Power came back Tuesday! PEPCO told us it would take until Thursday, but I live in a good neighborhoody area for electricity.
I was actually in DC when the storm hit. I was in the car waiting for my husband to finish one of his computer tech jobs, and saw the wind and the rain slam into everything. It was kind of epic.
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Date: 2010-07-28 10:55 pm (UTC)luckily, we were all home when it hit and it didn't seem that bad, but then I had my nose buried in a book. ;-p The power blinked a few times and then was fine. Glad yours came back more quickly than expected.
It seems to have taken out a good bit of my corn and possibly a squash plant. Most of my corn is flattened. :-( But the other squash plants, as well as the tomatoes and green beans are fine.
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Date: 2010-07-28 11:34 pm (UTC)My townhouse community is right off of Muncaster Mill Road and the power lines are underground, and it seems that whenever there is a power outage, our area gets it back more quickly than others.
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Date: 2010-07-29 02:30 am (UTC)When I take route 57 to the metro, I go right by your neighborhood! Cool!
Let me know when you want some squash, I should be picking tomorrow or Friday.
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Date: 2010-07-29 05:10 pm (UTC)